How To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back - The Magic Words To Win Her Back - They Are Not I Love You
Author: H. L. Archer
If you have been trying to think of how to get your ex girlfriend back but you cannot figure out what to say, there are some magic words to win her back. This might surprise you, but they are not I love you.
There is a lot of advice that is aimed at helping guys like you get their ex girlfriend back, and they are pretty much the same. Using any good expert's advice should help you get back the woman you adore. Of course, the easier and surest method is what you would prefer. You want it to work quick and assure you that you will be spending the future with the woman you adore. If this is what you want, then you need to know what words are the most effective and use them.
The reason you should not tell your ex that you love her is because in her present emotional state, she thinks you will say or do just about anything to get her back. If you tell her you love her, it will only make her angrier because she will feel that you are only using the words to get your ex back.
The words you must say to your ex girlfriend in order to get her attention is 'I agree.' Those are the most powerful words you can say when a breakup a occurs. When she tells you that she needs space or whatever excuse she may use to break up with you, just give her a big smile and tell her you agree with the breakup and add that you have been thinking the same thing for sometime, but you did not want to hurt her.
The reason this works so well is that she was expecting you to break down and start begging her to change her mind. When you smile and agree with the breakup, you are knocking her back on her heels and she will not be able to believe her ears. The news that you were wanting to break up with her will be as big a shock to her as her words of needing space were to you. Now, she will be confused as to who is breaking up with who, and she will feel the same rejection as you do.
If this action is taken at the time of the breakup, it can quite often head it off. But if it has been a while since the breakup, it will work just as well to turn the feeling of rejection her way. Just make sure to drop out of sight for a few weeks and have no contact at all with your ex. This will give her time to cool off and start missing you. Then call her and tell her that the breakup was a great idea and you want to thank her from keeping you from having to hurt her and end the conversation. This will have the same effect as if it were done at the time of the breakup.
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You stated “winning” her back. Think as to how you “won” her in the first place. Be her friend. Show her that you are and can be the same man she fell for in the beginning. Men, and women, forget how they first became attracted to one another and slowly drift apart wanting to be some thing or someone else and mostly when the divorce is immanent they ask why did this happen and how can I change it. I’m a firm believer that actions speak louder than words, show her how you feel, show her you are the man she loved in the beginning, and be true to her and yourself.
Wow you really screwed that up. I really hate to say this but I don’t think your relationship could get better. If she does throw that in your face tell her to stop because you are very sorry and that you love her more than any girl in the world.
your to small let her deal with your little problem
You need to give him an ultimatum…it is either you or his parents…I don’t mean his parents should be out of his life but they should not rule it either…you have to tell him if he cannot stand up to them and be with you (always not when he wants to) then he needs to stop coming over and calling you and follow through with the divorce.
Letting him come back when he wants to allows him to use you (I know it is easier said than done, when you love someone you want every minute you can get with them) it lets him have you and allows him to seemingly obey his parents. It cannot continue in that manner for long…
The fact is his parents are over protective of him to the point of destruction(i.e. your marriage) he has to let them know their place if he wants to have a relationship(marriage) with you.
if were are talking fantasy come back from the dead stuff. I say more power to them I am marring Jennifer Anniston when I come back from the dead I mean come on I am famous right I would be the first one to come back from the dead since what I don’t know um-mm JESUS CHRIST RIGHT? I will doing letterman and you know Jen will be there I mean I call her that because we hit it off so next thing you we are on the nude beach in CABO and getting married at sunset.
how to get trust back after u cheated on your wife help?
i cheated on my wife and i trying to get her to trust me again but at times she does but she throws words out there like go and beep the next door nieghbor or throws it back in my face i am very sorry to her but what can i do
i try to ask her to stop but she kept on going
i try to show it was a mistake, i forget to i did have sex with anyone i post ad in all singles ads on the internt and in sex crap
what are the best words to hurt your ex?
my ex has just broken my heart over his ex wife (think he still loves her), what r the best words to get back @ him with?
Winning your ex wife back?
I don’t like the word winning but can’t think of a better term. But I am looking for ideas on how to gain back my ex’s trust and to have her fall in love with me again. I buy her flowers for her birthday and try to help her where I can. I know everyone says they are ex’s and move on but she is not in a relationship with anyone and I have a daughter with her and I really love her and miss her. We may be divorced but if she hasn’t moved on and we are still friends and get along great I still feel like fighting for her. What are some ways I can gain trust back with her and have her fall in love with me all over again. I am trying to have patience and give her some space. We have only been divorced a couple of months. Neither cheated on each other when we were married.
Divorced because of financial problems, trust issues, her wanting to be independant. It was 99 percent my fault and I have apologized a lot
I haven’t watched fireproof and she didn’t want to see it with or without me. She is the one who initiated the divorce and the trust issues were with her not with me. I wanted to do whatever it took to stay married even if it meant to stay seperated longer to get things straightened. We weren’t even seperated a year before the divorce. It was a very quick divorce and no lawyers
Help me if you’ve ever got your husband or wife to come back?
My husband and I have been married for 7 months and about 3 months ago he left, over some jealousy issues and his family was encouraging the leave. I was helping my sister with the youth group at our church and some of the kids started texting me. The one that the problem was over was a 17 year old male. He said ‘love you’ a couple times, but in my church we say that. I’m not justifying it because it was wrong, but nothing to leave over. We were together for 5 years, before we got married. My husband left that day (in August). Right after the leave, he told me he wanted to work things out and get counseling. Then about two weeks later, he filed for divorce. He changed his phone number so for about a month, I couldn’t call him only email, but he would never respond. I called a couple times to his parent’s house for him and his father said “stop calling here, WE got rid of you”! By the way, since 8th grade and dated, his parents never liked me, and didn’t approve of us dating. Didn’t even approve of us getting married.
In October, his work moved him to Chicago for about a month, and before he left he came by, we looked through wedding and honeymoon pictures, we had sex, and he left. He stopped talking to me for about a month, while he was in Chicago. I drove up to Chicago to surprise him without him knowing, and he made me leave, and it was a 4 hour drive. He started saying things like I don’t love you anymore. I don’t miss you. We’re going through a divorce.
In November, all month, he was texting me, calling me, coming to our house, being a little more kind, and saying he’s contemplating things. He came by one night and said he misses me and wants to work things out. Then after working 3rd shift, he texts me and said that what he said was a mistake. But he kept texting me and coming home. Don’t get me wrong, it wasn’t for sex. We did have sex but not every time. He comes home after work from time to time and we talk. I ask him if he wants counseling and he says no, I ask him if he loves me and he says no. But he will never look me in the eye. One night he came over to stay the night, we watched a movie and went to sleep, and I asked him “Do you want out or you want out because it would be easier and he shook his head yes. He left at 5:30am because his parents were getting off a 6am and would know where he was at. But he breaks plans with me still, like stands me up. Its like he won’t come when I ask.
He asks me questions like why was I at the church when there wasn’t service, and why do you have people over at our house, etc.
In December, it’s gotten better. We’re talking more, he’s coming over more, and sometimes just stops by before work to talk. But he will talk to me, and then go a couple days without talking to me and won’t answer my calls. My lawyer called me asking what is going on, because there has been no word about the divorce at all. Like, he’s not pursuing it to his lawyer. Please help me figure out what is going on? What is he thinking and feeling?
Let me know if you have any questions about any detail?
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Also, he made a facebook when he left and won’t add me. He told me Sunday night, that there is nothing to worry about. Also, about two months ago, I was checking his voicemail and there was a voicemail from his ex in high school Saying “If you don’t want to talk to me anymore just tell me”!!
No. He left her for me. Since that day, they never spoke. And that was 7 years ago. I have no idea how she got his number, probably from his parents.
His parents do not like his ex. They have never liked a single girl he dated. No one was good enough. He didn’t leave me for someone, if he did he would being too busy with them than for me.
Yes, but I’m trying to get some more input
If you die and your best male friend marries your wife/girlfriend…….?
…..would that be sick?
Let’s say you have a good close male friend who is always there for you and your wife. You told him to take care of your wife/girlfriend in case something happens to you. The wife only feels comfortable with you and your friend. One day, you die in a lab accident. After your funeral, your male friend keeps his word to take care of your wife/girlfriend. Over time, the wife/gf and your friend get close……closer…..suddenly they fall in love with each other(things happen).
If somehow you came back to earth(don’t ask) and found out your best friend married your woman, would you be pissed or be happy since she is with someone she can trust and your friend is a good man.
Ladies, if this happen to your sister/female friend and husband, would you be mad? If your sis/friend marries your hubby.
I mean like come back from the dead or come back as a ghost.