The No Contact Rule - How Does It Help Me Get My Ex Back? Part 2
Author: S. Williams
Can the no contact rule really help me get my ex back? Yes, but it is a process of step by step personal evolution, and you must not skip a step. The next step to winning your ex back is one that most people over look...emotional evolution. You must get your life back before you can get your ex back, understand? No? Well keep reading and I will explain it to you...OK?
How To Get Your Life Back Using The No Contact Rule
Since you have broken off all communication with your ex, you will have more time to focus on yourself...if you're smart. Most people just sit there and wait for 30 days to pass, and then attempt to reconnect with their ex again. The reason just about everyone fails is...they weren't ready emotionally to reconnect, and they lose control of the process and set themselves back.
“How can no contact help me get my ex back?” by using this time during no contact to work on yourself emotionally. I call this your personal and emotional evolution, and it is an evolution. You have to let go of the old relationship, and learn from the mistakes...that the both of you have made. The best way to do this is by keeping a personal journal, and writing down your daily feelings.
Use this outlet to prevent you from contacting your ex and breaking NC. There are also many self help tools available in your local library to help with your emotional evolution as well, if you need it...go get some counseling too. Make no mistake, there is a tough battle ahead but you can get your life back, and then “get my ex back”, if you follow all the steps necessary.
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S. Williams
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If he can’t handle a relationship at the moment then try and not show too much love but let him know that you care. Give him time to think and he’ll realize for himself the mistake of letting you go.
Hope it turns out well
Simply tell him that no matter what you’ll be there for him. Tell him that you hope all is well and that you care for him and always will. Try to not to say too much. It might draw him back. He’ll miss you
What to put in a love letter to get ex back?
My ex broke up with me 2 weeks ago as he is very depressed and on medication and couldn’t handle a relationship. I haven’t contacted him, but really want to send him a card to let him know I am thinking of him and hope he is getting better. Do you think this is a good idea, and if so, how should I word the card? I really would like him to take me back but won’t rush him. Many thanks for your help.
Fight to get my ex back or move on?
i was with my BF for 15 months but before we got together he had already planned to go to new zeland travelling. He left in december last year telling me he didnt want a long distance relationship because he wanted to give his move a fair try. In feb he sent me a bday present and a letter so i went mad and sent a really nasty email because it was hard enough getting over him as it is and he apologised and said things were really weird for him at the time. We havent spoke since. I know hes single and hes coming back next July. i miss him so much and have had other relationships but noone seems to compare
its his birthday sunday, so should i break the ice and just wish him happy birthday to see if i can get the ball rolling again or leave it? I understand why he hasnt contacted me since Feb as the email i sent was really horrible i was just so depressed.
Thing is i dont know if i will ever be able to get over him leaving me, maybe things have changed, but i would die if he met someone else :S
Help x
how do i get my ex back?
We jus broke up about a week ago…n I really want her back…but idk wat too do..cuz were still friends but I want more please help
how can i get my ex back?
i was going out with this guy for about 4 months. i broke up with him bcos i am 99% sure he was going to and one of his mates told me he was trying to find a nice way to. after that he never says hi or waves or anything. we play a sport against eachother and he used to always laugh wen we were up against eachother one on one, now he just acts like im another random. wen we hav to walk past eachother he goes silent (dusnt talk to the people he was talking to 5 seconds ago) he looks ahead and dosent meet my eyes, he keeps a straight, blank plain and sad face on (tho not a sad face about me if you know wat i mean) and i hate it. recently he waved bye wen we alked past eachother at the end of a game where our two brothers played against eachother, i was amazed and wanted to take the chance i thort i had, so i sent him a text but after about 10 of them he still wouldnt answer, so i sent one saying he culd scream at me shout at me and tell me he hates me but i want 2 be his friend again but the only reason i dumped him was … blah blah blah… thats wat i said and i finally got an answer out of him where he got one of the earlier texts i sent him telling him 2 f*** up and ‘keep acting like a d***h*** like normal, im more used 2 that’ then he sent – thats wat u said. so i tried to say sorry but i culdnt get him to text me again. then today after school we walked past eachother and u culd tell he was waiting 4 me 2 say bye. so i said cya and he did too. i hav a boyfriend but i just dont feel 4 him anymore so i am going to leave him (nicely as possible). i really want my old bf back, any ideas? pls help, even tho we r young and were probably a bit frigid with eachother i still want him back.
well, i wuld if i was older, i know you will probably laugh at me, but im a junior in highschool.
and i dont think i wuld b able to do that
How do I get my old life back? – I need help.?
I split up with my boyfriend of 3 years, 10 months ago and since then my life has been like an episode of eastenders!
- We row constantly over what the other person is doing and who with (even though we know it’s nothing to do with each other anymore) we go for weeks without talking then one of us will get back into contact with the other. He says he has kissed other girls (I suspect he has done more) I have gone into power over load and had sex with two men in the 10 months we have been seperated. I am ashamed but I feel it’s because I am craving male attention and love. Even though I know this isn’t how you get it!
Worse part, one of the guys I slept with is my mums best friends boyfriend! It’s like I have no guilt, heart or even morals anymore. All I care about is myself, and where I can get my next bit of “eye candy” from! All I really want is my ex back, but I know this can never happen now. To much has gone on, I just don’t know how to get back to the confident me who didn’t need a guy to make her feel beautiful! I want to meet someone new and decent and actually have an adult relationship but I have no idea about how to get out of this rut.
I’ve tried no contact with my ex, it doesnt work! I’ve tried being “friends” with him, this doesn’t work! I know if I was over him I would snap back to normality but i’m afraid i’ve already done so much damage I may never be the same person again! Is it normal to have these sort of relationships and rebounds after a break up? I have no trust in anyone apart from myself, I feel like if i’m using these guys for sex, the fact they too are using me for sex is irrelavant. I have attempted suicide twice since the split, once cutting my wrists and then over dosing on parocetomol resulting in a 3 day hospital stay! Everyones worried and disgusted in me. I just feel so useless and worthless, my work is suffering… all because of this one guy.
How do I get my old life back? – I need help.