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How to Get Your Wife Back

Author: Katie Wang

When your marriage hangs on by a thread and your wife has given up what was meant to be forever, you can't sleep at night knowing what the bleak future holds. When kids are involved the stress weighs on you ten fold. Whether your wife has abandoned you for someone else or they've emotionally checked out, there is still hope left for getting your wife back.

When women leave it's not because they've stopped loving you

Women will stand by their man through thick and thin as long as they don't have commitment issues to begin with. What MAKES a woman leave is if she felt emotionally abandoned by YOU long before she does the leaving. Women need to be assured they're loved and appreciated regularly. How you show your appreciation is important.

Your willingness to connect and contribute

Women like to know you're contributing and putting effort into the relationship. This may mean actively participating in conversations, initiating dates, getting them gifts out of the blue, doing the cleaning when they least expect it and anything else your wife might originally do on their own! This is extremely important. If you 'expect' and have gotten 'used' to your wife always doing these things, it's time to wake up and start 'contributing too'.

Challenge your wife

One reason your wife might be leaving is because you've failed to continuously challenge her, or in other words, stimulate her mind, body and soul. How you challenge your wife depends on the type of woman she is. Sometimes women will deliberately 'start' an argument just to see their man showing some EMOTIONS towards them. Remember we're addicted to feeling emotions, so if your relationship has become stale and kind of boring, it could be a reason why they've decided to pack up and leave.

How things have changed

It didn't always use to be this way. Remember the person you both were when you first got married. It's ok that things are different because change is inevitable, but how did things change for the worse instead of for the better? A marriage is two people that learn to grow and change together. Two people must challenge and stimulate each other and they must also contribute and give more then they take. It's the recipe to a healthy and balanced relationship.

It's not too late. As your wife fell madly in love with you once, it's entirely possible to recapture that love and intensity again. Don't let her be the one that got away because you've made a couple of mistakes. Turn your marriage around and get your wife back because you might regret never having 'really' tried in the first place: Get Your Wife Back

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About the Author

Katie is a writer and an artist who specializes in love and relationships. To find out more, visit: Break up Tips & Advice



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10 Responses to Get Your Wife Back

  1. Anonymous says:

    if his wife had power of attorney over him, and signed HIS signature as a co-signer, then yes, legally, he could be. but if she signed her own name, then no, it is her legal responsibility to pay back that loan, if her brother defaults on it. you may want to check with your state’s attorney general’s office to see if there could be exceptions to this.

  2. Anonymous says:

    Well, you two took a break. I say you should forgive and forget. That baby is yours even if its not blood.

  3. Anonymous says:

    No..but your wifes friend sounds like a fuckin biitch.

    You know what they say

    Sometimes people rub off on people.

  4. Anonymous says:

    I do not know of any, but I do have some other suggestions.

    1 person suggested “The Proper Care and Feeding of Marriage” by Dr. Laura Schlessinger. That is a good suggestion, I’ve read it and I would recommend it, absolutely.

    Another good book is “Relationship Rescue” by Dr. Phil. It is a book the two of you should read together, and it has “exercises” to complete together to strengthen your marriage and open up to one another. I’ve also read this, and it is a great read.

    I would like to say that you should really look into yourself and find the ways YOU are negatively contributing to the marriage before pointing fingers at your husband. To suggest that “HE” could really benefit from a book about winning his wife back is rather self centered in my opinion — did it occur to you that maybe he doesn’t think you’re worth the effort?

    Saving a marriage takes both parties, not just one. Good luck.

  5. Anonymous says:

    **If she’s moved on, maybe you need to move on too**

  6. Dadof4Kiddies says:

    Has your wife ever went behind your back and got pregnant on purpose?
    My wife really wants a baby now but agreed to wait another two years before we have one.

    I trust her and know she would never go behind my back and get pregnant but she told me her friend told her to get pregnant on purpose now since we are married and I wouldn’t leave her. My wife told her friend that she wasn’t going to do that.

    Apparently her friend did this and her husband wasn’t too happy but it worked out for them.

    Has anyone been betrayed like this?

  7. CK1 says:

    What if your wife co-signed for a loan behind your back? Are you on the hook, as the husband, to pay?
    My brother was looking over a credit report and came across an entry from a bank. His wife went behind his back and co-signed on a car loan for her brother. What are his options? He wants doen not want to be on the hook for this. Also, if they got a divorce, would he be on the hook if her brother defaulted on the loan? PLEASE HELP!

  8. Brad E says:

    What is the best way to get your wife back even if she might have a new boyfriend?

  9. Addiwack says:

    Should you take your wife back if she gets pregnant by another man?
    You and your wife seperate for some time not knowing if you’ll ever get back together. Neither want to officially call the quits on the marriage so you dont get a divore. BUT when you to sit down about several months later to talk about the possibilities, guess what. SHE PREGNANT (by someone else). her and the other guy isn’t together anymore, so, do you take her back????

  10. felix_dovetail says:

    Is there non-Christian version/similar book to “Winning Your Wife Back Before it’s Too Late?”?
    I think my husband would get a lot of good out of reading this, but will ignore the important messages if he finds it too “preachy.” Is there a similar book to “Winning Your Wife Back,” but without the religious undertones?