How to Get Your Ex-wife Back
Author: Teecee Go
After the breakup or the divorce, you may have been trying to set your life straight but somehow you could not. You still long for your wife and wonder how she is now and how she spends her time. Love is a difficult thing to deal with. It could drive you nuts when you lose your wife. There is no fast and easy manual on how to get your ex-wife back. Most of the time, you will be by yourself trying to find out by trial and error what works and what doesn’t.
Thankfully, there are couples who got back together after a divorce and you can learn from their experiences. Although each person is unique, there are a number of lessons you need to learn regarding how to get your ex-wife back.
You should remain social and stay as active as possible. This will prevent depression and will help you deal with the difficulties of the divorce. By becoming physically fit and active, you also become more confident. When you are confident, you start to think clearly than if you are depressed. Go out with your friends regularly so they can encourage you to pursue your ex-wife. If you remain solitary, you will only reinforce feelings of loneliness and depression. When you are with your friends and your ex sees you with them, it sends her the signal that you are doing well.
When you are not with the kids and you are not seeing your ex-wife, you need to look back to your marriage and try to look at the things that went wrong. What was your role in the breakup? What went wrong? Don’t just dwell on what your ex-wife did. Breakup and divorce is almost always due to the actions of two people and not just one. Blaming your spouse will get you nowhere so you better get your acts together and look at how to best deal with the situation.
There will be times you meet your ex-wife. These meetings may be purely accidental because of your kids or some coincidence. Perhaps such a meeting is the fruits of your labor in winning her back. You need to enjoy each other’s company and try not to bring up issues that separated you. In doing this, you are not putting undue pressure on yourself and on your ex-wife to get back again.
Give some time to rediscover each other. Show her that she still has a special part in your heart and you want her back. When you shall have warmed up to each other again, then you are making the most important step of all—the chance to get your ex-wife back.
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You stated “winning” her back. Think as to how you “won” her in the first place. Be her friend. Show her that you are and can be the same man she fell for in the beginning. Men, and women, forget how they first became attracted to one another and slowly drift apart wanting to be some thing or someone else and mostly when the divorce is immanent they ask why did this happen and how can I change it. I’m a firm believer that actions speak louder than words, show her how you feel, show her you are the man she loved in the beginning, and be true to her and yourself.
You usually don’t. As they are also usually a big part of the divorce.
Well…no offense but your ex-wife is lazy and selfish; she had it way too good while she was with you and took you for granted. She didn’t appreciate any of your hard work!
Personally, I don’t believe in divorce and I would suggest getting back with your ex for the sake of your two sons, but make sure that she knows things HAVE to change because you will not continue to live like this (she needs to work and/or clean, laundry, etc.). If you two get back together and see no change from her then leave….you deserve better, you deserve happiness!
My ex-wife didn’t cheat. But I would not take her back if she would have. I’ve been divorce going on 10 years. The marriage was a short one. I have not been re-married, she has just divorced her 3rd husband, I was her first. But for the longest time I felt like failure, not able to keep my marriage. I think it men sorta feel that way. It took me awhile to realize that maybe I wasn’t the only reason for the divorce. Now seeing she has divorced yet again, I can safely assume she was at fault too.
How do you get your ex-wife to come back into your life without her friends being involved?
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I want to know what are some of the best ways to get your ex wife back? I found this site: http://getyourexbackeasily.com/get-ex-wife-back-and-keep-her-back/
It has some good advice, but does anyone else know of any other methods I can use to get her back? Thanks
Winning your ex wife back?
I don’t like the word winning but can’t think of a better term. But I am looking for ideas on how to gain back my ex’s trust and to have her fall in love with me again. I buy her flowers for her birthday and try to help her where I can. I know everyone says they are ex’s and move on but she is not in a relationship with anyone and I have a daughter with her and I really love her and miss her. We may be divorced but if she hasn’t moved on and we are still friends and get along great I still feel like fighting for her. What are some ways I can gain trust back with her and have her fall in love with me all over again. I am trying to have patience and give her some space. We have only been divorced a couple of months. Neither cheated on each other when we were married.
Divorced because of financial problems, trust issues, her wanting to be independant. It was 99 percent my fault and I have apologized a lot
I haven’t watched fireproof and she didn’t want to see it with or without me. She is the one who initiated the divorce and the trust issues were with her not with me. I wanted to do whatever it took to stay married even if it meant to stay seperated longer to get things straightened. We weren’t even seperated a year before the divorce. It was a very quick divorce and no lawyers
To all Divorced men: did your ex-wife cheat on you?
If your ex-wife cheated on you and left you, tried to take the kids away from you, flaunted her lovers in front of you and your kids and has rebuffed every effort you have made to get back together in the last four years, would you give her a chance four years on if she said she then wanted to work things out?
This has happened to the guy I was seeing, he just bought new house and his ex heard the kids raving about it and came over then said she wanted to see if they could work things out.
He said yes and I am out of the picture.
I just want to know if this is the typical reaction for most guys?
Would you take your ex-wife back under these circumstances?
If so, why, what reason?
If not, why not?
I would really like some insight because right now I feel pretty used and very naive.
Should you ever consider going back to your ex-wife?
What do you do when you are married and you feel like you are still a one man show, you have to pay all the bills, do all the laundry, clean up most of the house, while your spouses job is to take care of the boys, but she doesn’t work.
You work mon-sat from 8-8 off only on sunday, and on sunday you do all the yard work.
You ask for help, cause the economy got tough, and you cant make ends meet, and you ask for 2 years cause your income has been cut in half, and at every turn you are offered excuses. Reason why this or that cant happen. Then when things get really tough and you are in danger of loosing home you are told to solve that problem or THEY Will leave.. Keep in mind you asked for their help for 2 years…
So you fix all the problems and decide to leave.
Then you are given the Guilt trip from hell.. For months.. and months.. .
You still have some feelings for your ex, but have since found another partner that just fits and fills all i had hoped.. well maybe not all. but a huge amount of them.
My ex… She wants me back.. and we have 2 boys.
But Love is a huge issue.
And feeling liek you are fighting all alone all the time makes it difficult.
So what are you alls thoughts?