Comments for GET YOUR WIFE BACK http://getyourwifeback.net Learn How To Get Your Wife Back Starting Today. Thu, 31 Mar 2011 23:59:50 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 Comment on How To Save Your Marriage From Divorce by Shooter Girl http://getyourwifeback.net/how-to-save-your-marriage-from-divorce/#comment-4544 Shooter Girl Thu, 31 Mar 2011 23:59:50 +0000 http://getyourwifeback.net/how-to-save-your-marriage-from-divorce/#comment-4544 How do you save your marriage after a long-time emotional affair? My husband and I have been married less than 2 yrs. We have a 3 yr old child together. My hubby also has a 14 yr old son with his ex-wife. In the past, I have intercepted text messages from the ex-wife to my hubby that are very inappropriate, ie. I love you and I think of you, I miss you, I wish you weren't with her, etc. My husband has admitted to having an inappropriate relationship with her and says that he knows it would never work between them, but he still loves her. He knows that she manipulates him and uses him as an ego boost. He has also admitted to me that she does alot of the things she does to anger me. She left him over 10 years ago after cheating on him with a man that was nearly 40 years her senior. There has been a general deterioration in our marriage due to the infiltration of the ex-wife and also due to the fact that he allows her to do these things and won't put a stop to it. I know I am up against a great evil, and I know that it will be extremely hard to overcome this. A few months ago, my husband moved 8 hours away to undertake a new carrer opportunity. A few weeks after he left, he told me he wanted to separate. Then I found out from his ex-wife that he enlisted her help in finding a divorce attorney. Last week, my hubby tells me he has had a change of heart and that he wants to work on saving this marriage and all that jazz. Well, I made the 8 hour trip to where he is living, and when I got here I found over 100 text messages between my hubby and the ex, professing their undying love for one another. She recently broke up with her fiance and so she was in need of an ego-boost from my husband. I confronted him, he says it is over between them, and that he wants me and not her. I am not even sure that I can learn to accept this, or figure out how to trust him! I don't want to be the nagging wife, or the nosey, snooping wife. Is there anything I can do to encourage him to be a stronger husband with a deeper sense of respect and commitment to out child and our marriage, or am I a fool to believe he can let go of what he used to have? I do not want to get a divorce, I believe strongly in the vows of marriage, but I do also believe that this is considered adultery. How do you save your marriage after a long-time emotional affair?
My husband and I have been married less than 2 yrs. We have a 3 yr old child together. My hubby also has a 14 yr old son with his ex-wife. In the past, I have intercepted text messages from the ex-wife to my hubby that are very inappropriate, ie. I love you and I think of you, I miss you, I wish you weren’t with her, etc. My husband has admitted to having an inappropriate relationship with her and says that he knows it would never work between them, but he still loves her. He knows that she manipulates him and uses him as an ego boost. He has also admitted to me that she does alot of the things she does to anger me. She left him over 10 years ago after cheating on him with a man that was nearly 40 years her senior. There has been a general deterioration in our marriage due to the infiltration of the ex-wife and also due to the fact that he allows her to do these things and won’t put a stop to it. I know I am up against a great evil, and I know that it will be extremely hard to overcome this. A few months ago, my husband moved 8 hours away to undertake a new carrer opportunity. A few weeks after he left, he told me he wanted to separate. Then I found out from his ex-wife that he enlisted her help in finding a divorce attorney. Last week, my hubby tells me he has had a change of heart and that he wants to work on saving this marriage and all that jazz. Well, I made the 8 hour trip to where he is living, and when I got here I found over 100 text messages between my hubby and the ex, professing their undying love for one another. She recently broke up with her fiance and so she was in need of an ego-boost from my husband. I confronted him, he says it is over between them, and that he wants me and not her. I am not even sure that I can learn to accept this, or figure out how to trust him! I don’t want to be the nagging wife, or the nosey, snooping wife. Is there anything I can do to encourage him to be a stronger husband with a deeper sense of respect and commitment to out child and our marriage, or am I a fool to believe he can let go of what he used to have? I do not want to get a divorce, I believe strongly in the vows of marriage, but I do also believe that this is considered adultery.

]]> Comment on Will Wife Come Back To Me by NeighborLady http://getyourwifeback.net/will-wife-come-back-to-me/#comment-5101 NeighborLady Thu, 31 Mar 2011 23:52:39 +0000 http://getyourwifeback.net/will-wife-come-back-to-me/#comment-5101 I hope she doesn't come back. You seem to need the full two years to get your own act together. The shouting, swearing, is abuse. Feeling disrespected is the insecurity that excuses the abuse. You were the only one that didn't see the physical assault coming. Buying the gift was textbook honeymoon portion of the abuse cycle. Can't live without her is the scariest part of all. That's stalker talk. You can't just say you will change, you have to actually change, live a couple of years as a changed man. Oh, and she made a decision, and you are trying to find a way around it. Still not respecting her decisions. You haven't changed yet. That magic 8-ball that says what will happen to you if you don't get your way? Chuck it. I hope she doesn’t come back. You seem to need the full two years to get your own act together. The shouting, swearing, is abuse. Feeling disrespected is the insecurity that excuses the abuse. You were the only one that didn’t see the physical assault coming. Buying the gift was textbook honeymoon portion of the abuse cycle. Can’t live without her is the scariest part of all. That’s stalker talk. You can’t just say you will change, you have to actually change, live a couple of years as a changed man. Oh, and she made a decision, and you are trying to find a way around it. Still not respecting her decisions. You haven’t changed yet.
That magic 8-ball that says what will happen to you if you don’t get your way? Chuck it.

]]> Comment on How To Save Your Marriage And Ruin Your Life by maddie (: http://getyourwifeback.net/how-to-save-your-marriage-and-ruin-your-life/#comment-4480 maddie (: Thu, 31 Mar 2011 23:46:28 +0000 http://getyourwifeback.net/how-to-save-your-marriage-and-ruin-your-life/#comment-4480 I agree, one hundred percent. This should be in the Constitution! Hahah, just kidding. But it's a good rule to live by. (: I agree, one hundred percent.
This should be in the Constitution! Hahah, just kidding.
But it’s a good rule to live by.
(:

]]> Comment on How To Save Your Marriage And Ruin Your Life by dorotti79 http://getyourwifeback.net/how-to-save-your-marriage-and-ruin-your-life/#comment-4479 dorotti79 Thu, 31 Mar 2011 23:40:57 +0000 http://getyourwifeback.net/how-to-save-your-marriage-and-ruin-your-life/#comment-4479 10 reasons to abstain sex till marriage? Agree? 1. Your husband will be best sexual partner, because he would be the first one and only. 2. You never regret of having sex with wrong guy(nobody could use you as a sex toy) 3. You always feel respect of others. 4. When you are in relationship the emotional side of sex wont ruin it 5. You always have much less stress because you know you wont get pregnet 6. You do not have to worry about contraception and how it affects your health 7. You save time you save money, you can give your time to other things 8. You always have a nice feeling inside about your marriage meaning 9. Compared to your whole life the time from maturity- till marriage is not long, so is better to wait a liitle to enjoy all the left years. 10. Sex makes similar emotions like having children. When you have sex you like take a risk of having children with your partner. And you really do not want to have children with somebody except your husband. Do you agree? All males are disagreeing because, they realise the emotional side of sex, be meaning of sex, and how its related with love and like "i want to have children with you even if we do not want it yet" ONLY WHEN they became matured man. Then they want a virgin wife and also i think regrefting of having sex till marriage, but never admiting it. 10 reasons to abstain sex till marriage? Agree?
1. Your husband will be best sexual partner, because he would be the first one and only.
2. You never regret of having sex with wrong guy(nobody could use you as a sex toy)
3. You always feel respect of others.
4. When you are in relationship the emotional side of sex wont ruin it
5. You always have much less stress because you know you wont get pregnet
6. You do not have to worry about contraception and how it affects your health
7. You save time you save money, you can give your time to other things
8. You always have a nice feeling inside about your marriage meaning
9. Compared to your whole life the time from maturity- till marriage is not long, so is better to wait a liitle to enjoy all the left years.
10. Sex makes similar emotions like having children. When you have sex you like take a risk of having children with your partner. And you really do not want to have children with somebody except your husband.

Do you agree?
All males are disagreeing because, they realise the emotional side of sex, be meaning of sex, and how its related with love and like “i want to have children with you even if we do not want it yet” ONLY WHEN they became matured man. Then they want a virgin wife and also i think regrefting of having sex till marriage, but never admiting it.

]]> Comment on Save Your Marriage Before It Begins by meanersbeaners http://getyourwifeback.net/save-your-marriage-before-it-begins/#comment-4822 meanersbeaners Thu, 31 Mar 2011 23:35:40 +0000 http://getyourwifeback.net/save-your-marriage-before-it-begins/#comment-4822 How can you save a marriage that's falling apart? I have been married almost seven years to a guy I met in college. We dated quite a few years and even lived together a little while before getting married and having our son. Our son is four years old, and not only am I having to deal with the trouble that he constantly gives me after all he's a four year old child, but I have to deal with crap from my husband. Nothing is ever good enough for him, like tonight he came in the door, and I explained to him that I haven't felt well after all my stomach has been really rough on me, and that he would have to fix himself something to eat or recommend what he would like me to fix because I didn't feel like eating. So he got a little upset but no biggie, then our son was eating at the table and making noises like a normal four year old, he looks at me and says "will you tell him to shutup" and I looked at him like he lost his nerve. So then my son ran off to his bedroom upset and began to read quietly, and then I went to check on and play with him. Then my husband walks in and begins to talk about how trashed the yard is with toys and such and how dirty it looks and how bad it looks, and I tried over and over to explain to him that our son and I was out playing all day long, and just had come in the door five minutes before he came home. I just feel as if our marriage is fallen apart does this sound like something that someone who doesn't feel well should have to deal with, now my stomach is in knots and I feel twice as bad as i did. What do you do when you feel like your marriage is falling apart but with communication your not heard. How can you save a marriage that’s falling apart?
I have been married almost seven years to a guy I met in college. We dated quite a few years and even lived together a little while before getting married and having our son. Our son is four years old, and not only am I having to deal with the trouble that he constantly gives me after all he’s a four year old child, but I have to deal with crap from my husband. Nothing is ever good enough for him, like tonight he came in the door, and I explained to him that I haven’t felt well after all my stomach has been really rough on me, and that he would have to fix himself something to eat or recommend what he would like me to fix because I didn’t feel like eating. So he got a little upset but no biggie, then our son was eating at the table and making noises like a normal four year old, he looks at me and says “will you tell him to shutup” and I looked at him like he lost his nerve. So then my son ran off to his bedroom upset and began to read quietly, and then I went to check on and play with him. Then my husband walks in and begins to talk about how trashed the yard is with toys and such and how dirty it looks and how bad it looks, and I tried over and over to explain to him that our son and I was out playing all day long, and just had come in the door five minutes before he came home. I just feel as if our marriage is fallen apart does this sound like something that someone who doesn’t feel well should have to deal with, now my stomach is in knots and I feel twice as bad as i did. What do you do when you feel like your marriage is falling apart but with communication your not heard.

]]> Comment on How To Save Your Marriage Before It Begins by meanersbeaners http://getyourwifeback.net/how-to-save-your-marriage-before-it-begins/#comment-4482 meanersbeaners Thu, 31 Mar 2011 23:35:40 +0000 http://getyourwifeback.net/how-to-save-your-marriage-before-it-begins/#comment-4482 How can you save a marriage that's falling apart? I have been married almost seven years to a guy I met in college. We dated quite a few years and even lived together a little while before getting married and having our son. Our son is four years old, and not only am I having to deal with the trouble that he constantly gives me after all he's a four year old child, but I have to deal with crap from my husband. Nothing is ever good enough for him, like tonight he came in the door, and I explained to him that I haven't felt well after all my stomach has been really rough on me, and that he would have to fix himself something to eat or recommend what he would like me to fix because I didn't feel like eating. So he got a little upset but no biggie, then our son was eating at the table and making noises like a normal four year old, he looks at me and says "will you tell him to shutup" and I looked at him like he lost his nerve. So then my son ran off to his bedroom upset and began to read quietly, and then I went to check on and play with him. Then my husband walks in and begins to talk about how trashed the yard is with toys and such and how dirty it looks and how bad it looks, and I tried over and over to explain to him that our son and I was out playing all day long, and just had come in the door five minutes before he came home. I just feel as if our marriage is fallen apart does this sound like something that someone who doesn't feel well should have to deal with, now my stomach is in knots and I feel twice as bad as i did. What do you do when you feel like your marriage is falling apart but with communication your not heard. How can you save a marriage that’s falling apart?
I have been married almost seven years to a guy I met in college. We dated quite a few years and even lived together a little while before getting married and having our son. Our son is four years old, and not only am I having to deal with the trouble that he constantly gives me after all he’s a four year old child, but I have to deal with crap from my husband. Nothing is ever good enough for him, like tonight he came in the door, and I explained to him that I haven’t felt well after all my stomach has been really rough on me, and that he would have to fix himself something to eat or recommend what he would like me to fix because I didn’t feel like eating. So he got a little upset but no biggie, then our son was eating at the table and making noises like a normal four year old, he looks at me and says “will you tell him to shutup” and I looked at him like he lost his nerve. So then my son ran off to his bedroom upset and began to read quietly, and then I went to check on and play with him. Then my husband walks in and begins to talk about how trashed the yard is with toys and such and how dirty it looks and how bad it looks, and I tried over and over to explain to him that our son and I was out playing all day long, and just had come in the door five minutes before he came home. I just feel as if our marriage is fallen apart does this sound like something that someone who doesn’t feel well should have to deal with, now my stomach is in knots and I feel twice as bad as i did. What do you do when you feel like your marriage is falling apart but with communication your not heard.

]]> Comment on Seven Ways To Save Your Marriage by qman31500 http://getyourwifeback.net/seven-ways-to-save-your-marriage/#comment-4981 qman31500 Thu, 31 Mar 2011 23:34:05 +0000 http://getyourwifeback.net/seven-ways-to-save-your-marriage/#comment-4981 Mormon polygamy, ugly and ungodly as it was, underscores Jesus' teaching that in the resurrection, we are neither married nor given in marriage. There is no New Testament teaching that we're sealed to anyone but Jesus. The idea is that "in Christ," we enjoy his union with the Father, blessings, power, etc... The LDS polygamy doctrine was nothing more than Joseph Smith trying to figure out how to have sex with women he wasn't married to. Most Mormons don't know that men were sealed to their priesthood leaders in early Mormon history. Talk about a cult teaching! I believe the Wilford Woodruff discontinued this practice because no one could figure why the sealings were needed. Reading questions 1/2/3 reminds me of the men that were convinced the earth was flat and were trying to do the math to justify that assumption. Thank heavens they didn't have computers! They eventually just gave up because it fell apart. That opened the way for the theory that the earth rotated around the sun. The evidence finally fit! In like manner, Mormon polygamy makes no sense because it's origin is evil and exploitative. It only makes sense when you see Joseph's true calling as a con man just trying to have sex with more women. Then it all makes sense. Mormon polygamy, ugly and ungodly as it was, underscores Jesus’ teaching that in the resurrection, we are neither married nor given in marriage.

There is no New Testament teaching that we’re sealed to anyone but Jesus. The idea is that “in Christ,” we enjoy his union with the Father, blessings, power, etc… The LDS polygamy doctrine was nothing more than Joseph Smith trying to figure out how to have sex with women he wasn’t married to.

Most Mormons don’t know that men were sealed to their priesthood leaders in early Mormon history. Talk about a cult teaching! I believe the Wilford Woodruff discontinued this practice because no one could figure why the sealings were needed.

Reading questions 1/2/3 reminds me of the men that were convinced the earth was flat and were trying to do the math to justify that assumption. Thank heavens they didn’t have computers! They eventually just gave up because it fell apart. That opened the way for the theory that the earth rotated around the sun. The evidence finally fit! In like manner, Mormon polygamy makes no sense because it’s origin is evil and exploitative. It only makes sense when you see Joseph’s true calling as a con man just trying to have sex with more women. Then it all makes sense.

]]> Comment on Save Your Marriage Retreats by Agroove http://getyourwifeback.net/save-your-marriage-retreats/#comment-4917 Agroove Thu, 31 Mar 2011 23:18:51 +0000 http://getyourwifeback.net/save-your-marriage-retreats/#comment-4917 Oh...victory is yours on that one! I dont even know you and im proud of you. Sounds like you kept your cool, stuck to the facts, and that scares the sh*t out of ignorrant people. Most people dont even have a clue where or what is even said about homosexuals in the Bible. Its in Romans too, but you prob knew that ;-) Oh…victory is yours on that one! I dont even know you and im proud of you. Sounds like you kept your cool, stuck to the facts, and that scares the sh*t out of ignorrant people. Most people dont even have a clue where or what is even said about homosexuals in the Bible. Its in Romans too, but you prob knew that ;-)

]]> Comment on Save Your Marriage Retreat by Agroove http://getyourwifeback.net/save-your-marriage-retreat/#comment-4908 Agroove Thu, 31 Mar 2011 23:18:51 +0000 http://getyourwifeback.net/save-your-marriage-retreat/#comment-4908 Oh...victory is yours on that one! I dont even know you and im proud of you. Sounds like you kept your cool, stuck to the facts, and that scares the sh*t out of ignorrant people. Most people dont even have a clue where or what is even said about homosexuals in the Bible. Its in Romans too, but you prob knew that ;-) Oh…victory is yours on that one! I dont even know you and im proud of you. Sounds like you kept your cool, stuck to the facts, and that scares the sh*t out of ignorrant people. Most people dont even have a clue where or what is even said about homosexuals in the Bible. Its in Romans too, but you prob knew that ;-)

]]> Comment on Save Your Marriage After Infidelity by nikki93 http://getyourwifeback.net/save-your-marriage-after-infidelity/#comment-4775 nikki93 Thu, 31 Mar 2011 23:14:23 +0000 http://getyourwifeback.net/save-your-marriage-after-infidelity/#comment-4775 Survey: How do you feel about infidelity in a serious relationship? Do you think a marriage or relationship can be saved after infidelity? Would you/have you given your relationship another chance after being cheated on? Survey: How do you feel about infidelity in a serious relationship?
Do you think a marriage or relationship can be saved after infidelity? Would you/have you given your relationship another chance after being cheated on?

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